Episode 15

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23rd Jul 2025

Making sense of Unexplained infertility with James Nicopoullos

Welcome to this episode of The Fertility Podcast, the official podcast of Fertility Action. In this conversation, Natalie is joined by long-time friend of the show and Fertility Action trustee Dr. James Nicopoullos, consultant gynaecologist and medical director at The Lister. They dive into the often frustrating diagnosis of unexplained infertility - what it actually means, how it impacts your treatment options, and what you can do when you feel like you're hitting a wall.

This episode also covers highlights from Fertility Action’s recent campaign in Parliament, new shifts in male fertility awareness, and why conversations around fertility at work still have a long way to go.

What we discuss:

  • Parliament updates and raising awareness about cuts to NHS fertility funding
  • The Fertility Show and how to handle the overwhelm as a new patient
  • James' role as a Fertility Action trustee and why he believes in Katie’s mission
  • What unexplained infertility really means (and why it's so common)
  • The emotional toll of having no clear answers, especially for people used to being in control
  • Questions to ask your doctor when faced with unexplained or subfertility
  • What to rule out: hormones, anatomy, sperm DNA, and more
  • The reality of add-ons and how to weigh evidence-based versus emerging options
  • When it makes sense to seek a second opinion and how clinics typically respond
  • The evolving conversation around male infertility and the importance of male involvement
  • Fertility in the workplace, what patients are still dealing with, and how employers can do better
  • Why infertility still isn’t fully recognized as a legitimate health condition in some policies
  • How education, advocacy, and testing are slowly shifting public perception

Quote to remember:

“You should be using your annual leave for a holiday, not to do fertility treatment.”

Listen if you’re:

Dealing with a diagnosis of unexplained infertility, feeling stuck after multiple cycles, or needing a reminder that there are still questions worth asking and answers worth pursuing.

Links & Resources

  • Follow Fertility Action: @fertility.action
  • DM Natalie: @fertilitypoddy
  • Email: natalie@thefertilitypodcast.com
  • Subscribe to the podcast on your app of choice
  • Learn more about Dr. James Nicopoullos: Lister Fertility Clinic
  • Explore Fertility Action’s support groups and advocacy work: fertilityaction.org
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About the Podcast

The Fertility Podcast
The Fertility Podcast|Expert interviews|Women and Men sharing #TTC stories|Wellbeing support
If you’ve found your route to parenthood hasn’t been straightforward, The Fertility Podcast is for you. From how to optimise your fertility to getting pregnant naturally, navigating IVF, understanding donor conception or surrogacy to how to prepare for a life without children. Whatever your situation, you are not alone. Created by Natalie Silverman, a former fertility patient in 2014 Natalie set about speaking to experts and sharing lived experience and expert interviews In 2019 Kate Davies, an independent fertility nurse consultant joined as co-host and from 2023-2024, Kate hosted the podcast solo sharing more of her expert insight and stories from her patients. As The Fertility Podcast reached its 10th anniversary the decision was taken to cease publishing.. until now. The Fertility Podcast is proud to partner with Fertility Action, a new UK charity dedicated to supporting anyone affected by infertility, secondary infertility, or sub-fertility. Together, we aim to amplify our mission of education, empowerment, and support. Fertility Action combines patient advocacy with expert knowledge to offer peer support, therapy, and reliable information. They are also committed to improving fertility care access, raising awareness, and driving research to advance understanding and treatment.

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