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20th Nov 2023

Mike - Talking Surrogacy

In this episode of the Fertility Podcast, I am joined by Mike Johnson-Ellis who is here to talk all about surrogacy. We talked about the ins and outs of surrogacy, his own surrogacy journey and how that led to the launching of TwoDadsUK and Your Surrogacy Journey. Mike and his partner Wez aim to support couples who are starting their own surrogacy journey, and are passionate about paving the way for a better future for surrogacy. 

What we discussed:

  • Mike shares his surrogacy journey which resulted in two beautiful children.
  • We talked about TwoDadsUk which launched back in 2016 and the success of the company, then the decision to launch a new non profit surrogacy organisation called My Surrogacy Journey in Feburary of 2021. 
  • Mike shared why many women choose to become a surrogate - the ultimate altruistic act.
  • We talked about the feeling of empowerment and accomplishment that surrogates feel.
  • We then discussed what it is like from the other side, for those who make the decision to have a family via surrogacy and the apprehensions of doing so.
  • Mike highlighted the importance of building a relationship with the surrogate and their partner if they have one, and developing a friendship with them.
  • Mike and I talked about where to start, what the options are for those who are looking into surrogacy, for both heterosexual couples, gay couples and single parents.
  • We talked about the recent changes in surrogacy law. However, please note that since the recording of this episode there have been further changes not discussed here.

Mike’s 3 top tips for those considering surrogacy are: 

  1. Do your research - don’t rush into surrogacy, do your research on the organisation or the country your doing your journey in.
  2. Always get legal advice - just in case.
  3. Understanding that like everything, surrogacy has its highs and its lows.

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Find Best Surrogacy Agency in UK for Surrogacy Support in UK and US (mysurrogacyjourney.com)  

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The Fertility Podcast
The Fertility Podcast|Expert interviews|Women and Men sharing #TTC stories|Wellbeing support
If you’ve found your route to parenthood hasn’t been straightforward, The Fertility Podcast is for you. From how to optimise your fertility to getting pregnant naturally, navigating IVF, understanding donor conception or surrogacy to how to prepare for a life without children. Whatever your situation, you are not alone. Created by Natalie Silverman, a former fertility patient in 2014, I then joined forces with Kate Davies, an independent fertility nurse consultant as we spoke to a range of experts and people just like you. Today in 2023, Kate is now hosting the podcast without Natalie ( who you can find hosting The F Word at Work ) here the podcast is going back to its routes to share more patient stories as we’re here to hold your hand, on your route to parenthood including how it impacts you at work.

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